The Power of Friendship

Okay, so who would guess that 36 years later, this woman who lived in the same Chicago apartment building and I would write a blog on retirement!  After more than a couple of marriages, 18-plus jobs (only 6 on my resume, but who’s to know?), 5 dogs, 2 houses, 4 children (between the two of us) and here we are!

Why us? Well, if we survived all that life throws your way and still remained such good friends, though we haven’t lived in the same state for 31 years, then we were meant to write our musings on retirement together! In Yiddish, one would say it was Bashert! Meant to be, destiny!

Our friendship was cemented when we trained for the Chicago Marathon one extremely hot summer.  As 26 year olds (God, we were young!) we talked about our work day, our husbands, parents, what we were doing for weekend.  We somehow breathed and kept our training pace even though we gabbed the whole way. It was a great relief from daily stress, both of us being in the finance industry, Barclay in municipal bonds and me institutional equities.

How we loved our 80s business suits and bows – a short lived fashion trend.

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This would become a great friendship! 

Fast forward and I retire at 62, Barclay 6 months later, me from financial publishing, she from teaching. The two young girls had grown old together, had a full life of achievements, accomplishments, disappointments, joy mixed with frustration, in other words, LIFE!

This chapter we’re now in –  post-job –  well, you just don’t know what it’s going to be like until you get there!   Barclay and I are seeing it similarly — and hence the idea of the blog was born!

Who better to write than two great friends!

Today’s Takeaway –

  • Foster friendships!  Reach out.  Have a drink or coffee with a buddy.  Be intentional. 
  • Listen more than talk.

Enjoy the ride!

xox, Barclay and Joy

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