Okay, seriously, I was and still am that person who forgets everything!!!
I like to think it’s because I am distracted easily and have many thoughts going through my brain at the same time. (We brilliant folks do! It’s a cross we must bare!) I probably have ADD, though I’ve never been tested, but ask my children or husband and they will say, without a doubt!
Last week I was carrying around my knapsack with me and didn’t realize I had left it somewhere until 2 days later. I was looking for something and remembered I had placed it in the knapsack. Luckily, I could retrace my steps and fortunately, I didn’t have a wallet or passport inside it, but nevertheless, I had to return sheepishly to the doctor’s office my husband and I had been sitting in 2 days earlier. The receptionist came out with the knapsack and said, “We didn’t know who it belonged to!” It didn’t have my identification in it since there was no wallet. Phew!
It is the worst feeling in the world to lose things. I should know since I’ve been doing it all my life!
When my 1st child was born, my husband bought me a tee shirt that said “Oh My God, I Left My Baby on The Bus!” This was amusing, to be sure, but could I actually do that, be so absent minded as to leave a living breathing person on public transportation and not realize it until I got off??!! Thank God, it never happened. Maybe, I didn’t take enough buses at the time!! A story just appeared this morning though in Newsweek with a mom leaving her baby on the plane, so I am in good company! Check it out!
I was the kid who came home from school without her books so that when it came time to do my homework, OOPS! One time I left an entire duffel bag and had to explain to my teacher that I couldn’t do my homework because I didn’t have my assignment or my notebook! Really, JOY!!! REALLY!! I guess once forgetful, always forgetful because I have carried this trait throughout life. My mother always said to me, “If your head wasn’t screwed onto your body, you’d forget that too!” Thanks mom.
The good news is I never did lose the baby, not the 1st one or the 2nd one. I remember my dog, my husband, and for the most part important things. Keys, sunglasses, and a shopping bag are a whole different story!
. Focus, concentrate, try your level best to be aware of what you are carrying. If you are like me, (I pray you are not!) know your shortfall and be extra careful when something is in your possession.
. If that’s my worst flaw, so be it. Learn to laugh off the small stuff. Material possessions can always be replaced, humans a bit harder!!
Enjoy the Ride!
xox Barclay & Joy